Monday, May 26, 2008
自我催眠
人群里面那个我把幸福遗落
那曾经走过的路口我停了你却走
我想捂住我的耳朵听不见你说
爱就在此刻松手分手放手
我猜不透不猜透
和你背对背的走
原来怪我没有
没有爱情的天分你才要走
我想要学会自我催眠
痛觉会少一些
潜意识作祟想着想到失眠
我躺在没有你的房间
寂寞更加明显
我渐渐的自我催眠
却回不到从前
等着红灯那个我还会向前走
也许那幸福的执着在下一个路口
专属铃声我还留着却静静沉默
在我们之间爱了放了散了
我会不说不想说
怕说了也没有用
现在我的幽默
只是掩饰着心痛我的难过
我想要学会自我催眠
痛觉会少一些
潜意识作祟想着想到失眠
我躺在没有你的房间
寂寞更加明显
我渐渐的自我催眠却回不到从前
Gambate
Rafe
It's time....
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Growth
To me....
Group Growth is always important than Personal Growth.....
Always taking the group interests first......
But having saying this......
In order to let the group grow... we have to get growing ourselves first....
"Old doesn't grow...new doesn't come in..."
Ironic isn't it... but its true.....
I realised for my group to grow.... i have to grow more.....
A lot of people says that i have done a lot le.... but in fact is i have done nothing.....
Emotions often are the biggest distraction to iogic..... overcome it....
Gambate
Rafe
Group Growth is always important than Personal Growth.....
Always taking the group interests first......
But having saying this......
In order to let the group grow... we have to get growing ourselves first....
"Old doesn't grow...new doesn't come in..."
Ironic isn't it... but its true.....
I realised for my group to grow.... i have to grow more.....
A lot of people says that i have done a lot le.... but in fact is i have done nothing.....
Emotions often are the biggest distraction to iogic..... overcome it....
Gambate
Rafe
Friday, May 16, 2008
Hide Memorial Summit
The Hide Memorial Summit was held on May 3 and May 4, 2008 at the Ajinomoto Stadium, where X Japan, as well as many other bands, performed.
Hideto Matsumoto (松本 秀人, Matsumoto Hideto, December 13, 1964–May 2, 1998), was a popular Japanese musician. More commonly known by his stage name Hide (pronounced /hi.de/, given in all-lowercase letters by the artist), he was primarily known for his work as lead guitarist of the popular heavy metal band X Japan from 1987 to 1997. He was also a successful solo artist and co-founder of the United States based band Zilch.
Hideto Matsumoto (松本 秀人, Matsumoto Hideto, December 13, 1964–May 2, 1998), was a popular Japanese musician. More commonly known by his stage name Hide (pronounced /hi.de/, given in all-lowercase letters by the artist), he was primarily known for his work as lead guitarist of the popular heavy metal band X Japan from 1987 to 1997. He was also a successful solo artist and co-founder of the United States based band Zilch.
Hide joined X Japan (then called X) in 1987. He became the band's lead guitarist and occasional songwriter, composing songs like "Celebration", "Joker" and the single "Scars". Shortly after the release of the album Art of Life, the members of X Japan took a break, to start solo projects. Around that time, the group also dropped most of its original visual kei aesthetics, the exception being Matsumoto, who would still perform in wildly colorful outfits and with his trademark pink hair.
Hideto Matsumoto died on May 2, 1998. After a night out drinking, he was found hanged with a towel tied to a doorknob in his Tokyo apartment. Three fans died in copycat suicides, of the 50,000 people who attended his funeral in Tsukiji Hongan-ji, nearly 60 were hospitalized and about 200 received medical treatment in first aid tents. Later that month, the single "Pink Spider" was released, entering the Oricon charts at number one. The song would also receive that year's MTV Video Music Award in the category "Japan Viewers Choice". Sales were also strong for the follow up single "Ever Free", while those of a single released previous to his death "Rocket Dive" would also see a substantial increase. American Journalist Neil Strauss commented on the trend saying that: "In just a few weeks, pop culture in Japan had gone from mourning Hide's death to consuming it."
While authorities deemed Matsumoto's death a suicide, several of Hide's friends and colleagues stated that they believed it to be an accident, among them X Japan co-founder Yoshiki Hayashi and former X Japan bassist Taiji Sawada. This notion is supported by the fact that no suicide note was left and Sawada theorizes in his autobiography, that at the night of his death, Hide may have been practicing a technique to relieve upper back and neck pains which guitarists can suffer from continuous use of a shoulder strap. The technique involved was practiced by the X Japan members during their touring days and required the use of a towel and a door knob or handle. According to Sawada, Matsumoto may have fallen asleep in his intoxicated state, becoming caught and strangling himself.
As with many other late musicians, re-issues, compilations and previously unreleased portions of Matsumoto's work continue to be published, the most recent being several singles, re-released on May 2, 2007, the ninth anniversary of the artist's death. The remaining members of X Japan recently reunited and recorded a new song, titled "I.V.". It contains a previously unused guitar track by Hide. On July 8, 2007 Yoshiki Hayashi announced to be in talks with several musicians regarding a Hide tribute concert set for 2008, in order to commemorate the tenth anniversary of his former bandmate's passing.
As with many other late musicians, re-issues, compilations and previously unreleased portions of Matsumoto's work continue to be published, the most recent being several singles, re-released on May 2, 2007, the ninth anniversary of the artist's death. The remaining members of X Japan recently reunited and recorded a new song, titled "I.V.". It contains a previously unused guitar track by Hide. On July 8, 2007 Yoshiki Hayashi announced to be in talks with several musicians regarding a Hide tribute concert set for 2008, in order to commemorate the tenth anniversary of his former bandmate's passing.
On September 25, 2005 the hide Museum has be closed.
Been kind of sad and regret of not having a chance to visit hide Museum.
It has been 10 years since Hide left.
But the spirit is still around when i watch the memorial summit via youtube.
X forever
Rafe
在團隊工作中，建立積極、健康、緊密的個人關係的10個原則
1. 改變自己，影響他人：
不要試圖改變任何人的缺點，而要充分發揮每個人的優點。
2. 關心他人，勝過自己：
良好人際關係的第一法寶，就是關心別人。
3. 團隊利益，高於其它：
以自我為圓心，以個人利益為半徑畫圈，畫不大；以團隊為圓心，以眾人利益為半徑畫圈可畫得無限大。
4. 嚴以律已，寬以待人：
愛心+承諾+付出+自律=得到尊重和友誼。
5. 推崇忠誠，成為品德：
推崇能獲得力量，忠誠能贏得信任。
6. 溝通諮詢，成為習慣：
溝通是人際關係的第一要務；諮詢是通向成功的捷徑。
7. 負面影響，決不傳遞：
消極的思想和言論是團隊中的瘟疫。你要將積極的思想向下、往旁傳，消極的垃圾向上倒。
8. 換位思考，善於傾聽：
面對問題，要從三個不同角度思考，首先是對方的角度，其次是問題本身的對與錯，最後才是自己的認識，傾聽比向對方說教往往效果更佳。溝通中「聽」占50%，「問」占25%，「答」占25%。
9. 讚美激勵，不斷造夢:
讚美是人際關係的第一通行證；激勵是團隊動勢的最好的加油站。你只有讓更多的人夢想成真，你才可以真正夢想成真。
※切記：夢想的力量是無窮的，你應是造夢大師。
10. 尊重他人，群策群力：
讓每一個人都感到他非常重要。「20世紀英雄獨領風騷，21世紀團隊戰無不勝」。切記：團隊工作可使你夢想成真。
不要試圖改變任何人的缺點，而要充分發揮每個人的優點。
2. 關心他人，勝過自己：
良好人際關係的第一法寶，就是關心別人。
3. 團隊利益，高於其它：
以自我為圓心，以個人利益為半徑畫圈，畫不大；以團隊為圓心，以眾人利益為半徑畫圈可畫得無限大。
4. 嚴以律已，寬以待人：
愛心+承諾+付出+自律=得到尊重和友誼。
5. 推崇忠誠，成為品德：
推崇能獲得力量，忠誠能贏得信任。
6. 溝通諮詢，成為習慣：
溝通是人際關係的第一要務；諮詢是通向成功的捷徑。
7. 負面影響，決不傳遞：
消極的思想和言論是團隊中的瘟疫。你要將積極的思想向下、往旁傳，消極的垃圾向上倒。
8. 換位思考，善於傾聽：
面對問題，要從三個不同角度思考，首先是對方的角度，其次是問題本身的對與錯，最後才是自己的認識，傾聽比向對方說教往往效果更佳。溝通中「聽」占50%，「問」占25%，「答」占25%。
9. 讚美激勵，不斷造夢:
讚美是人際關係的第一通行證；激勵是團隊動勢的最好的加油站。你只有讓更多的人夢想成真，你才可以真正夢想成真。
※切記：夢想的力量是無窮的，你應是造夢大師。
10. 尊重他人，群策群力：
讓每一個人都感到他非常重要。「20世紀英雄獨領風騷，21世紀團隊戰無不勝」。切記：團隊工作可使你夢想成真。
Shout Out!!!!
Why do people like to complain?
Why are people looking at the smallest things? Like finding a bone in the egg...
Why people only care for themselves while the others are of same treatment as them?
Why are they so self-centred?
Why can't they see the true meaning?
Why are they so negative?
Why does some people just blindly follow?
Why does people often misinterpret "Simple"?
Why must people suffer mentally of all these "F*** *p" people?
Why can't they be more positive?
Why do they look at problems rather than solutions?
WHY..... WHY ..... WHY.....
They just dun get it.....
Damm.....
(Sorry... i'm complaining also)
Why are people looking at the smallest things? Like finding a bone in the egg...
Why people only care for themselves while the others are of same treatment as them?
Why are they so self-centred?
Why can't they see the true meaning?
Why are they so negative?
Why does some people just blindly follow?
Why does people often misinterpret "Simple"?
Why must people suffer mentally of all these "F*** *p" people?
Why can't they be more positive?
Why do they look at problems rather than solutions?
WHY..... WHY ..... WHY.....
They just dun get it.....
Damm.....
(Sorry... i'm complaining also)
Thursday, May 15, 2008
Make it happen!!
The more difficult the task you face, the better you'll feel when you get it done. So plunge right in and get to work on it. It won't get done by itself. You're the one who will make it happen.
Tackle the most difficult, tedious, challenging things first. Start off with the things you really don't want to do but you know you must. Get them out of the way. Once you've gotten past them, the things you do want to do will be all the more enjoyable and productive.
Success comes from thinking ahead and taking the actions which will serve you best, not simply the actions which serve the whims of the moment. You are worthy and you are capable, so make it count. Harness your awesome capabilities and make some positive progress.
The sooner you start, the sooner you'll be finished. Before long, those tough challenges which have been nagging you and worrying you will be behind you. Just imagine how great that will feel. Just imagine what you'll be able to do next! Get busy and get it done. Then you can look back on today as a day of great accomplishment upon which you can build even more.
Tackle the most difficult, tedious, challenging things first. Start off with the things you really don't want to do but you know you must. Get them out of the way. Once you've gotten past them, the things you do want to do will be all the more enjoyable and productive.
Success comes from thinking ahead and taking the actions which will serve you best, not simply the actions which serve the whims of the moment. You are worthy and you are capable, so make it count. Harness your awesome capabilities and make some positive progress.
The sooner you start, the sooner you'll be finished. Before long, those tough challenges which have been nagging you and worrying you will be behind you. Just imagine how great that will feel. Just imagine what you'll be able to do next! Get busy and get it done. Then you can look back on today as a day of great accomplishment upon which you can build even more.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
E.Funkhouser Series 7 out in june!!!
E.F Series 7 out in June
But only available in Taiwan.
Taiwan soon????
Rafe
信心從那裡來？
信心從那裡來？
一個不懂游泳的人永遠不會對游泳有信心，他必須跳進泳池，在游泳過程中才會不斷增強信心。做安麗也一樣，只要你做，就會不斷增加信心。
當連續三個人拒絕你，不要懷疑你是否適合做安麗事業，不適合做是那三個拒絕你的人。人生只活一次，所以應要掌握人生，做自己喜歡的事，做對自己未來有真正改變的事。成功的道理是一樣的，也把它用在您本身的工作上，相信會有幫助~^^
中島薰
一個不懂游泳的人永遠不會對游泳有信心，他必須跳進泳池，在游泳過程中才會不斷增強信心。做安麗也一樣，只要你做，就會不斷增加信心。
當連續三個人拒絕你，不要懷疑你是否適合做安麗事業，不適合做是那三個拒絕你的人。人生只活一次，所以應要掌握人生，做自己喜歡的事，做對自己未來有真正改變的事。成功的道理是一樣的，也把它用在您本身的工作上，相信會有幫助~^^
中島薰
Monday, May 12, 2008
成功在聽的懂 看的懂..
陳婉芬老師傾囊相授成功哲學
一個成功的人，一定要先有成功的思想；而成功屬於看得懂、聽得懂安麗事業的人。
安麗梅花體系所敬愛的大家長陳婉芬老師，在安麗公司所舉辦Q12皇冠大使表揚大會的盛大場面中，成為全場一萬五千名領導人及夥伴們的矚目焦點。
全場熱烈感人的氣氛，讓她感動、讓她喜悅，也讓她流淚，她懷著感恩的心，除了向全場來賓表示千萬個感謝外，也期勉在座的朋友們努力學習，有朝一日也能像她一樣，站在國際舞台上，接受成千上萬人的歡呼，實現人生的理想。
看懂聽懂不虛度光陰
陳老師接著站在台上，毫無保留地傾囊相授她一生的智慧、經驗及成功哲學。
她首先引用西方哲人蘇格拉底的一句名言說：「成長不是我有話說，而是要聽得懂、看得懂。」她希望在座的每一位朋友，一定要用心傾聽她說的每一句話，因為一個人聽得懂、看得懂安麗事業，這輩子就不會虛度光陰、浪費生命。
陳老師用「上帝的大西瓜」這個故事，勉勵全場朋友要敢夢、敢想。
故事大意說：有兩個賣西瓜的老板，中年老板雖然賣了三十年的西瓜，但生意卻不如只賣三個月的年輕人，年輕人說，因為他賣的是上帝的西瓜，生意當然比較好。中年老板為了要吃上帝又大又甜的西瓜，多次苦苦哀求年輕人，分一個上帝的大西瓜給他吃吃看，最後年輕人說：「你要吃上帝的西瓜，不會自己去做夢啊！」
陳老師自嘲自己是個數字觀念模糊，求學時成績不好的人，但她說，一個人過去如何並不須在意，如何把握現在、創造未來，才是最重要的，如果能擁有好的觀念和思想，就可以改變未來，美國名人愛默生就是一位永遠積極樂觀，用思想、理念帶動美國不斷進步的人。
傳遞成功思想觀念
陳老師也提及日前有一位深諳命理的人告訴她，二月四日這一天，她將達到一生最高的頂點；過去一生淡泊名利，名利卻跟著她，但從今以後不再追求名利，而在實現自己的思想、理念及奮鬥目標。
陳老師聽了很感動，認為名利都不足掛齒，人要效法先知先覺的精神，傳遞成的思想、觀念最重要，這也是她未來一生的目標。
陳老師勉勵夥伴們要努力學習好的思想、觀念，不要自以為是、不以為然，否則將斷送學習成功的機會及一生的前途。
愛默生曾說：「每次挫折、失敗是成功的墊腳石」。
陳老師表示，每一個人都有他的潛能，而每一個人的潛能都像一座冰山，上帝給每一個人的潛能都有十分，但為何潛能無法發揮？主要因為很多人一生的潛能，沒有用到一、二分，即原封不動地帶進棺材，非常可惜！
思想決定生活方式
根據科學研究，愛迪生的潛能還用不到五分即成為大發明家，顯然人類還有很大的潛能尚待開發，因而心理學家表示，二十一世紀人類最偉大的發明不是電腦，而是人們發覺：人可以透過思想、觀念，決定自己的生活方式。
陳老師舉貝多芬為例，他在耳聾之初，痛不欲生，認為一生已沒有希望，從此每天練習自殺，原本打算一槍結束生命，卻因寫遺囑直到天亮，而突然聽見「天亮的聲音」，讓他體會到：原本世界上最優美的音樂是要用心靈深處去感應，因而譜出「生命交響曲」及「英雄交響曲」等燴炙人口的偉大樂章。
一個成功的人，一定要先有成功的思想；而成功屬於看得懂、聽得懂安麗事業的人。
安麗梅花體系所敬愛的大家長陳婉芬老師，在安麗公司所舉辦Q12皇冠大使表揚大會的盛大場面中，成為全場一萬五千名領導人及夥伴們的矚目焦點。
全場熱烈感人的氣氛，讓她感動、讓她喜悅，也讓她流淚，她懷著感恩的心，除了向全場來賓表示千萬個感謝外，也期勉在座的朋友們努力學習，有朝一日也能像她一樣，站在國際舞台上，接受成千上萬人的歡呼，實現人生的理想。
看懂聽懂不虛度光陰
陳老師接著站在台上，毫無保留地傾囊相授她一生的智慧、經驗及成功哲學。
她首先引用西方哲人蘇格拉底的一句名言說：「成長不是我有話說，而是要聽得懂、看得懂。」她希望在座的每一位朋友，一定要用心傾聽她說的每一句話，因為一個人聽得懂、看得懂安麗事業，這輩子就不會虛度光陰、浪費生命。
陳老師用「上帝的大西瓜」這個故事，勉勵全場朋友要敢夢、敢想。
故事大意說：有兩個賣西瓜的老板，中年老板雖然賣了三十年的西瓜，但生意卻不如只賣三個月的年輕人，年輕人說，因為他賣的是上帝的西瓜，生意當然比較好。中年老板為了要吃上帝又大又甜的西瓜，多次苦苦哀求年輕人，分一個上帝的大西瓜給他吃吃看，最後年輕人說：「你要吃上帝的西瓜，不會自己去做夢啊！」
陳老師自嘲自己是個數字觀念模糊，求學時成績不好的人，但她說，一個人過去如何並不須在意，如何把握現在、創造未來，才是最重要的，如果能擁有好的觀念和思想，就可以改變未來，美國名人愛默生就是一位永遠積極樂觀，用思想、理念帶動美國不斷進步的人。
傳遞成功思想觀念
陳老師也提及日前有一位深諳命理的人告訴她，二月四日這一天，她將達到一生最高的頂點；過去一生淡泊名利，名利卻跟著她，但從今以後不再追求名利，而在實現自己的思想、理念及奮鬥目標。
陳老師聽了很感動，認為名利都不足掛齒，人要效法先知先覺的精神，傳遞成的思想、觀念最重要，這也是她未來一生的目標。
陳老師勉勵夥伴們要努力學習好的思想、觀念，不要自以為是、不以為然，否則將斷送學習成功的機會及一生的前途。
愛默生曾說：「每次挫折、失敗是成功的墊腳石」。
陳老師表示，每一個人都有他的潛能，而每一個人的潛能都像一座冰山，上帝給每一個人的潛能都有十分，但為何潛能無法發揮？主要因為很多人一生的潛能，沒有用到一、二分，即原封不動地帶進棺材，非常可惜！
思想決定生活方式
根據科學研究，愛迪生的潛能還用不到五分即成為大發明家，顯然人類還有很大的潛能尚待開發，因而心理學家表示，二十一世紀人類最偉大的發明不是電腦，而是人們發覺：人可以透過思想、觀念，決定自己的生活方式。
陳老師舉貝多芬為例，他在耳聾之初，痛不欲生，認為一生已沒有希望，從此每天練習自殺，原本打算一槍結束生命，卻因寫遺囑直到天亮，而突然聽見「天亮的聲音」，讓他體會到：原本世界上最優美的音樂是要用心靈深處去感應，因而譜出「生命交響曲」及「英雄交響曲」等燴炙人口的偉大樂章。
X-japan live in Taipei!!
Its been confirmed X-japan Reunion world tour 2008
*July, 5th (Sat) ~ Villepinte Parc d'exposition,Paris *
*August, 2nd (Sat) ~ Taipei World Trade Center, Taipei, Taiwan *
* September, 13th (Sat) ~ Madison Square Garden, New York *
Feel like going for the Taipei concert after i missed the 3 nights concert in Japan....
Taipei in Aug 08....
Rafe
For thy special ones
Love is special.... esp for the mother and kids.....
She is singing for her kids who keep asking " mom... when will you be back!!"
But she have to earn more in britain in order to help her kids to survive.....
Hope that she will went far in the competetion....
Touched by her values and her performance...
Love..
Rafe
Better than what you think you are!!
watch this video.....
I like Britain Got Talent both season 1 and 2.. with paul potts winning season 1..
Now with season 2, this boy has a talent to shine... just not confident only
Most of us are too... we all have a hidden talent or something we are really good at..
We just don't have a stage to perform with..
Thanks len for giving us a stage to perform with...... thanks boss
We are often better than what we think we are.....
Gambate
Rafe
Friday, May 9, 2008
Singapore Dreaming
Watch this film last year alone feeling emo.
Often people would look outwards to their dreams and try to fullfil them.
Some will achieve it and some fail.
And some compromise their dreams and stay in own small little comfort zone
Dare to dream and dealt your dreams with actions!!
Make your dreams come true!!!
The car, the condo, the yauht, travelling...... everything to think of with worries.....
Gambate
rafe
First posting
Been wanted to setup a blog a long time
To express my thoughts....
Will try to make this blog entertaining and inspiring
Hope answer can be found here........
Gambate!!
rafe
To express my thoughts....
Will try to make this blog entertaining and inspiring
Hope answer can be found here........
Gambate!!
rafe
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